The girls and I had a great weekend. We saw the Gateway production called Truthical, which was amazing! They always go above and beyond at putting on musicals. Saturday we visited the first brick house in Euless. It was so cool to get a tour from an 80 year old man that used to visit the house. This morning the girls and I went and volunteered at Beautiful Feet ministries in downtown Fort Worth. It was such a blessing to be able to give back to the community. Olivia found her niche in the kitchen, I’m pretty sure she was running it by the time we left. 🙂 Harli was stuck to my side the entire time. Not because she was scared, she just likes to stay close to me. They are both incredible little people, and I am so blessed to be lucky enough to be called their Momma. ❤
Today at Beautiful Feet I met the sweetest lady named Jen. We were talking while greeting and she told me about her parents. She said her Dad did heroine, and then she proceeded to tell me that she didn’t know when she was a kid, but later on she realized it. I wanted to tell her about my ex-husband and that she is basically a living example of what my kids are going to have to walk through. I couldn’t talk to her about it because my daughter was standing there with me. I got very emotional while she was talking to me though, and it made my heart break for my kids. When people do drugs, or anything that is an addiction, they don’t realize all the pain they are causing other people. They think they are just doing it to themselves, but that my friends is a big fat lie. They are doing it to everyone that loves and cares about them. It sucks!
While I was volunteering, I realized I hadn’t looked at my cell phone in several hours. As you know that is a huge accomplishment, because who doesn’t check their phone at least once an hour? Has anyone else noticed that besides me? People cannot even go on a date without their cell phone sitting on the table, just in case they get a notification. We think we are in control of our phones, but we aren’t. As soon as we see a notification, we are quick to check it. Man has become a slave to technology. We all know our great-grandparents would roll over in their graves, realizing how much time we actually spend on our cell phones. Think about it…. how many times today did you check Facebook, just to scroll? How long were you on there? What about Instagram? Twitter? Farmville? Have you feed your animals today? Imagine all the time we waste on senseless things, instead of connecting with people around us. Those people will not be in your life forever. Why not be intentional with the people that care about you enough to stare at your phone cover more than they are starring at your mouth move. I challenge you and myself this week. I challenge us to keep a little list of how many times you get on your phone for anything other than to call someone. Calling someone would be connecting with someone, but anything else you do on your phone, is not actually connecting with someone. You may be communicating, but you are not making an authentic connection. Just notice how often you are on your phone doing pointless things. Are those things going to help you today? Are they going to help you see the bigger picture? Let me know how your challenge goes. 🙂
Love your friend intentionally today. Who says its not good to love someone too much? Define too much. ❤